We’ve all heard cliches about college life, like staying up all night, partying all day, and packing on the Freshman 15. But how much of what you’ve heard is really true? You may be surprised to find out that reality doesn’t quite match up with the stories. Here are some of the myths of college life, and the truth behind them.
Your major is the most important tool for your career. Many students go into college believing that they have to choose a major that will lead them directly to a career. While those who study mechanical engineering may have a pretty obvious career path, it doesn’t have to be that way for all students. Many companies are not necessarily concerned with what exactly you’ve studied, just that you were committed and able to put in the work and know how necessary to get a degree in a related field.
Everyone’s having sex. Sure, college is a time when many young students explore their sexual lives, but not everyone does. Many students abstain from sex. Still others who are sexually active may not be quite as active as you think they are-there are many students who are still very selective in their sexual partners and choose to only have sex while in meaningful relationships.
You’ll be poor. This myth is the truth for lots of students, but aside from tuition, college life is actually pretty cheap. You’ll be living in the dorms, don’t have to grocery shop or pay utility bills, and entertainment is not terribly expensive-all you have to do is head down the hall to the closest party. You may even have time to get a part time job and earn money in your free time while in college.
Greek life is the only way to make friends. While fraternities and sororities offer a great way to meet people, they’re not for everyone. You can use the Greek system to get involved and make friends, but it’s not the only way. Join clubs and groups you’re interested in, go to events, and talk to people in class. You’re bound to meet a few people that you’ll enjoy hanging out with.
College is an experience with lots of stories and traditions, but not everything you’ve heard is true. Before you believe the myths, be sure that you’re getting the whole story.